What do I get as a gift for my child’s preschool teacher?

Over the years I’ve received a variety of different gifts from plants and jewelry to gift cards and hugs. Most teachers love whatever they receive, we are generally programmed that way.

Any gift should thoughtful and heartfelt. You must know something about the teacher to pull this off. If you see your child’s teacher as an inconvenience your gift will reflect this. Include your young child in the gift giving process.

You don’t need to spend any money. So many times a wonderful heartfelt note from a family is “the best gift”. If you are genuine in your sentiment it shows. We all like acknowledgement, write a short reference to something the teacher did or said that really helped you or your child. It could be funny or serious as long as it is memorable!

If you choose to give a teacher gift that is for the classroom, personalize it with a specific note as to why you or your child chose it and what the impact is for you. Now it is special. Ideas include gift cards to Michaels, Barnes and Noble or your local book or toy store.

Some families recognize the teacher as a person, and give a personal gift, not too personal though! We are not just teachers, we have many interests. Knowing what your child’s teacher’s interests are and reflect this in a gift is very thoughtful. Personal gifts might include, gift cards (from coffee shop or restaurant to manicure or garden center), cheese and cracker basket, wine, a movie night basket. Again, you must know this teacher to get the “right” gift. Add a note as to why you chose it. Did you get him/her warm socks because they have playground duty or an infinity scarf because you see her wear one and admire it? If your child picks out something that you roll your eyes over, let your  young child explain why they think it a perect gift and let the teacher know.

The “best gifts” I’ve ever received are as varied and unique as each of us. As I reflect on the best “gift” I ever received, it has always included a personalized note.

Lastly, not all teachers drink coffee or eat sweets…………this is not to be mean but be sensitive to who your child’s teacher is!! A mug with a 5lb bag of coffee is perfect for one teacher and ugh to another.

Remember all of your ideas are wonderful IF given from the heart, appropriate for the particular teacher and not given because you are “supposed” to. Remember to include a heartfelt note!

Happy Holiday Season.